Axel and Ianna: Just can't do it

J's Adoption Timeline

9/5/13 Made inquiry

No match available.

12/23/13 received info on J

12/24/13 Received pre-approval for J

12/31/13 Accepted referral

1/2/14 Homestudy started

1/13/14 Homestudy complete

1/15/14 Dossier complete

1/15/14 Appostilles

1/15/14 Dossier shipped!

1/15/14 USCIS submitted

2/6/14 USCIS approval

2/27/14 Arrive in Serbia!

3/3/14 Ministry meeting

3/4/14 Met Audrey!

3/6/14 Custody of Audrey

3/11/14 Final report submitted for

Minster approval

3/13/14 Ministry Signature

3/14/14 Adoption Ceremony

3/14/14 birth certificate, passport

citizenship papers complete.

3/17/14 passport picked up

3/17/14 translated documents received

3/17/14 Medical complete

3/18/14 VISA complete

3/19/14 We are HOME!

Abel's Adoption Costs

Items in black are paid in full

Items in red are left to pay

Homestudy application...$150

Homestudy update...Pd $1900

Background check...$210

Fingerprints...$30

Birth Certificate....$150

USCIS fingerprints...$890

Passport...$123

Apostille...$50

FedEx...$100

COCI deposit...$1000

COCI daily per-diem...$850

In-country translation fee...$350

Lodging...$570

in-country transportation...$300

birth certificate...$30

Visa...$275

Passport...$50

Medical...$100

Food/expenses...$600

Airfare...$3870

.......................................................

Total..............$ 11,598

Abel's Timeline

9/1/12: Requested information from Serbia for children who meet our criteria.

10/1/12: Ministry is adding new children, we must wait.

11/1/12: Informed there are no children who meet our criteria, we must wait.

12/11/12: Review files of four children

12/13/12: Agonized over decision

12/13/12: Accepted referral for boy.

12/17/12: Learned his name is "B"!

1/4/13: Homestudy started

1/18/13 Indefinite wait begins for Adam Walsh background checks to come back!

2/10/13 Homestudy complete except

for Adam Walsh background checks.

2/22/13 Homestudy complete!

4/3/13 USCIS approval

4/11/13 Arrived in Serbia

4/12/13 Met B for the first time!

4/17/13 Report submitted for Minister approval

4/23/13 SIGNATURE received!

4/24/13 Adoption finalized in Sid

4/24/13 New birth Certificate (Belgrade)

4/24/13 New Certificate of Citizenship (Belgrade)

4/24/13 Passport/Visa pictures (Belgrade)

4/25/13 Passport ordered (Sid)

4/26/13 pick up translated documents, pick up extra copy of birth certificate, pick up passport, medical appointment, embassy appointment, VISA COMPLETE!

4/27/13 FLYING HOME!!

Asher's adoption timeline

4/25/11 ...Homestudy updated

5/9/11...Homestudy submitted

(Serbia requires one year between

adoptions so it's gonna be awhile

before move forward with #2)

6/1/11...Verified Ianna is not available

9/27/11..received referrals to review for several

Serbian children

10/28/11 ...requested additional

information on two children

10/31/11 information received

11/1/11..made decision on child

11/2/11 Formally req. 7 yo boy

initial "L" from Serbia.

11/9/11 Serb officials inform us that

Dossier has been received by Social Center

responsible for L's care for review.

11/15/11 Learned his name is Lazar!

11/15/11 Flights booked!

11/19/11 Arrived in Belgrade

11/22/11 Met Asher for the first time!

11/29/11 Positive report submitted

to Ministry

12/2/11 MINISTER'S SIGNATURE

12/5/11 Adoption finalized in

Kragujevac, Serbia!

12/5/11 new birth certificate

12/5/11 order passport

12/7/11 receive translated

post-adoption documents

12/7/11 passport in hand

12/7/11 Visa medical complete

12/7/11 Embassy appointment

12/8/11 Visa in hand!

12/9/11 GOING HOME!

Cost of Axel's adoption (2010)

Homestudy App. Fee.... $150

Background check......... $210

Fingerprints....................$ 50

Birth Certificates........... $150

USCIS fingerprints........$830

Homestudy .................. $2400

Passport............................$123

Apostille............................$50

RR Commitment.............$275

Agency Fee....................$2000

FedEx................................$100

Translation Fee...............$900

Airfare............................$1700

Ticket change fee...........$463

Facilitation fee.............$6500

Hotel..............................$1028

Visa/passport.................$500

medical.............................$100

Food/expenses.............$1000

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Total .......................$18,529

Axel's adoption timeline

4/7/10 Met Ianna for first time.

4/8/10 Met Axel for first time

4/13/10 Publicly committed to adopting on the local news!

4/26/10 Filled out preliminary application with agency

4/26/10 Contacted homestudy agency

5/4/10 Application to Adoption Agency accepted

7/26/10 family profile sent to country of adoption

7/26/10 fingerprints completed

7/27/10 Application to homestudy agency

7/27/10 Background study submitted

8/13/10 Background studies complete

9/2/10 USCIS Request mailed

9/13/10 Homestudy class complete

10/7/10 Homestudy complete

10/7/10 Homestudy enroute to USCIS!

10/11/10 Made formal request

for Axel

10/14/10 Dossier complete!

10/21/10 Dossier enroute to Eastern Europe!

10/26/10 Fingerprints complete

10/26/10 Dossier Arrives in Country

11/1/10 Dossier Submitted!

11/3/10 USCIS Approval

11/5/10 Travel dates confirmed

11/8/10 Flight booked!

11/12/10 I-171h received

11/28/10 boarded the plane!

12/1/10 Meeting with Officials

in country

12/1/10 Reunited with Axel!

12/3/10 physical custody of Axel

12/9/10 Adoption Finalized in Kragujevac, Serbia!

12/13/10 Passport in hand

12/13/10 Visa medical complete

12/13/10 Embassy appointment

12/14/10 Visa in hand!

12/15/10 On a plane home!

12/15/10 Axel is HOME!

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Just can't do it

I just can't stay awake past the bedtime hours of the kids. It is all I can do to hold my eyes open until 8:30 p.m. Well, now it's 9:22, the latest I've stayed up since I got home. But my mind says it's 4:30 a.m in Serbia, and any sensible person would be asleep by now.

So that's where I'm headed. To bed. Hopefully soon I'll feel like a grown up again and stay up late to enjoy the quite, kid-free hours with Dean.

1 comment:

Ellen StumboDecember 18, 2010 at 9:47 PM
Oh I remember that! And I wish I would have kept an earlier bed time, but no, I had to go back to my bad routine of stauing up too late!
Don't worry, in 2 weeks, you will be back!
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